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 |  Subject: Why do people lie to those they love?  Fri Jun 15, 2007 9:25 pm | |
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Fri Jun 15, 2007 9:28 pm | |
| well actually i dunno..but it depends upon the person itself..coz i believe that if u truly love that person you dont need to lie, not at all..coz u should be true from the very beginning... You dont need to be a super star, or the most sexy woman and men on earth, or need a brad new car and be rich to be loved and accepted..just being you as a true person is enough to be the foundation of LOVED but "LIES" would never be a good foundation in any situations!
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Fri Jun 15, 2007 9:51 pm | |
| I got this from a friend of mine...
The Lie
Why do people lie?
Have you ever thought about it?
We lie because we do not trust a person around us with the truth.
For what ever reason.
Tell a lie - tell someone:
I don’t trust you.
I do not respect you.
I do not trust myself.
I do not trust how I will reply to your response.
I do not respect myself.
Tell a LIE - admit the FEAR that dwells within!
F E A R: False Evidence Appearing Real.
See the "I" in LIE?
I lie because I do not care about your feelings.
I would rather lie to you than be honest.
I am afraid the truth might hurt you.
If I tell you the truth you might hurt me.
I am more important than you are.
What I want is more important than what we want.
What I want is more important than what you want.
So let’s review:
LIE and say:
I am afraid of you.
I do not trust you.
I do not respect you.
I am more important than you are.
I am more important than we are together.
Maybe the word should be written l I e Big I. ( Looks sort of funny.)
Like we look to others when we lie;
Funny, silly, stupid and childish
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Fri Jun 15, 2007 10:34 pm | |
| LIE depends on the context of the lie
some lie for self preservation, some to make themselves feel important to mask shame, get out of trouble, seem more intelligent, and then some people just lie because they are not very nice human beings.....
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Sat Jun 16, 2007 9:20 am | |
| reason varies. my personal response:-
i lied coz i had to.. i love that person yet have to let go. lying doesnt always mean evil -.-
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Sun Jun 17, 2007 2:32 pm | |
| | ewan...di ko pa naranasan yan |
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Thu Jun 21, 2007 9:28 pm | |
| | Well people lie to the person that they love because he/she doesnt want the personthat they love to think different:heart: |
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Sun Jun 24, 2007 6:25 am | |
| | kawi wrote: | | ewan...di ko pa naranasan yan |
buti ka pa di mo pa naranasan ang magcnungaling. napakasanto mo cguro. joke lang.
i dont know why they call it white lies? maybe because its for everyones good. Yes I did lie too. This is because I promise to my friend not to say anything. so when someone asked me about waht my friend told me, I said I dont know. I know it is a lie but will I brake my promise and tell the truth? |
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Sun Jul 01, 2007 10:42 pm | |
| siguro dahil may reason din sila kaya sila naglalie but too much lie will kill you..hahaha (ay too much love pala yun not lie  )
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Sat Jul 14, 2007 2:00 pm | |
| becoz they dont wanna hurt the feelings of the one they truly love..
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Sun Jul 29, 2007 12:37 am | |
| | sometimes people lie to those they love to survive???? esp. when they are in the stage of denial... |
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Tue Jul 31, 2007 11:41 am | |
| Maybe they just don't want their love ones to be hurt.. my opinion i guess.
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Tue Jul 31, 2007 12:51 pm | |
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Tue Jul 31, 2007 12:52 pm | |
| dahil duwag silang harapin kung ano ang kakahinatnan ng mga bagay-bagay.
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Fri Aug 03, 2007 2:27 pm | |
| ,.i Lie if i havE a
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Fri Aug 03, 2007 2:51 pm | |
| i lie at times bcoz i dn't want 2 hurt a person...
but i've realized...
its better to tell the truth and draw a tear than to tell a lie that gives a smile but jst for a while...
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Sat Aug 04, 2007 6:57 am | |
| | some people lie to overcome their self-denial |
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Mon Aug 13, 2007 5:04 am | |
| i dunno... maybe they have their own reasons.. and it was bad for me coz i didnt know it... LOL  |
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Tue Jul 01, 2008 12:57 pm | |
| because they
dont want to get
suntok
and sampal
over the face by their love one 
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Tue Jul 01, 2008 7:56 pm | |
| malamang gusto nya na maging COOL tignan para sa tinigin nila mag kakagusto
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| | Subject: Re: Why do people lie to those they love? Tue Jul 01, 2008 8:15 pm | |
| | mc_dlp13 wrote: | | malamang gusto nya na maging COOL tignan para sa tinigin nila mag kakagusto |
ano daw?
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